When you’re a mother, you’re always going to want to make sure that you’re able to bond well with your children. It’s one thing to have a child and a whole other thing entirely for you to build a healthy, lasting relationship with them. But if this is something that you’d really love to do, you can totally make it happen. And as a mother to a daughter, or daughters, you may especially want to make sure that you can bond with them well.
The mother-daughter dynamic can be a tricky one. You may find that it’s hard to navigate or that there seems to be a lot of friction. Or maybe you’re just worried about this happening and you want your relationship to be stellar? When that’s the case, you’ll want to work on your relationship proactively and intentionally. Even though parenthood can be stressful at times, it needn’t be hard work for you to make this work. Let’s take a look at how.
Be Calm
For starters, you have to stay calm. This is so important. Even though you might think that there’s friction between you or you’re easily stressed out, a good relationship starts with you being welcoming, open, and calm. If you’re worried about things, then find a company that offers options to help you reassure yourself. Then you can just focus on the relationship building at hand with other things off of your mind.
Want It
Next you’re going to want to make sure that you actually want it. Don’t force it or show stress. Instead, building a great relationship comes from you trying. You giving yourself and you looking to grow and compromise and learn. Even though “you’re the parent” this is important to know.
Find Common Ground
The next thing that you will need to do is try to understand her. Know what she’s going through and support her – but also find common interests. Know what you can do together and enjoy different things together. It can be a way to help you make sure that you bond.
Make It Your Priority
Finally, you’re going to just want to make this a priority. Don’t just assume that it’ll happen or worry if it’s harder than you thought. You know that parenting is a constant cycle of growth and it’s also very proactive. So to have a better relationship with your daughter, it has to be a priority. Make it something that you’re always working on. Make time for her or them and do things together. Make sure that she or they know that nothing is more important than them. It’ll allow you to make things happen.
Having a daughter is such a beautiful blessing. One that you’re definitely going to want to enjoy and make better. Bonding with daughters can be so much easier than you think when you approach things in the right way. So try these tips out and see how you get on.
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ReplyDeleteIt's hard to keep calm but I'll take your tips to heart. I hope it helps improve my relationship with my rumbustious teenager.
ReplyDeleteBetter give this article to my wife. We have three daughters and this post is helpful.
ReplyDeleteIt's such useful information to know. Thank you for sharing this and making everyone's parenting better!
ReplyDeleteGreat insights and I have one of my own, and you have no idea once they turned from a baby to tweenage and then teenage. It's a big transition and parents should be very aware of it.
ReplyDeleteRemaining calm and patient is a good way to start this relationship and keep it going. We all learn and so, a child ought to be given their space to learn and make all the mistakes they ought to make in life.
ReplyDeleteGood advice to pass to my sister. It's a two way street to bond with a teenager
ReplyDeleteGreat tips! I'm sure this will help a lot of parents to have a good relationship with the daughter.
ReplyDeleteYes to finding common ground. To support them you have to understand them first.
ReplyDeleteSuch a great blog post! I will definitely keep this in my mind.
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